Rules of Gentlemen

The Manner in which Gentlemen should conduct themselves

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annaalways asked: i love this blog...every guy needs to know these things!

thanks, you can help by spreading the word ;)

mystory0507 asked: thank you for answering my question.i agree with you, but why is it that guys are scared of showing their weakness? why are they scared to show how they really feel? what are they really scared of?

guys are afraid of showing their weakness because it attacks their masculinity. For a long time, guys have been expected to hide their emotions. You’ve heard the saying “boys don’t cry” right? So I guess guys feel emasculated when they show weakness…

Anonymous asked: Will you post a picture of yourself please?

maybe if you asked me off anon ;)

Anonymous asked: Is there someone in your life that you are interested in? (Relationship-wise)

I guess, but it’s complicated…

wanariefimran replied to your post: why is pride so important to a guy?

pride is important for everyone to value what he/she has. if you have no pride you won’t have anything to protect. example, if you’re proud of your partner, you won’t ever want to let go of him/her. and ego and arrogance are something different.

there are different meanings of pride, such as pride in oneself and pride the sin. I think she was referring to pride in the latter sense. In which case, I think the reason why a person in a relationship would have too much pride may be ultimately attributed to their insecurity…

mystory0507 asked: why is pride so important to a guy?

I don’t think it’s specifically important to a guy. I think both sexes overvalue it. Everyone wants to be right, to be infallible. Everyone’s insecure about some thing. I guess essentially, people are afraid to show their weaknesses… You could also go on to say that it’s linked to one’s self-worth, identity and position in a social ladder…

Does that answer your question?

semipoetguydude asked: Its okay, single gentlemen we shall be! But its okay because "Don't lose your cool. A gentleman's temperance will always be in check"

:)

looksliketeenanxiety-deactivate asked: such a good blog<3

thank you :)

Anonymous asked: are you single? lol.

yes, it’s a hard knock life

Anonymous asked: How romantic! :) Oh, and I'd tell you who I was if I wasn't so shy and insecure and embarrassed about it. Anywayyyyyys, I'm a follower and you like my stuff and that's the extent of what I can tell you due to my lack of spontaneity and guts.

ikr, it’s probably the only thing I’d add to a wedding, the rest would be w/e the bride wanted…

Don’t be shy or embarrassed or insecure, it’s just me. Be spontaneous and gutsy :P

And your hint is so vague it’s not a hint, it’s more of a thx for the recap lol

Anonymous asked: LOL WUT? What in the world is a marital desert eagle?

a desert eagle only the most awesome hand gun everrr…

And we’d be getting one each, like a wedding gift we gave to each other, like wedding rings…

Anyhow, who are you??

Anonymous asked: Well then Dear, since names are so "unimportant", we must get married now. TODAY.

Well I guess names would be important for the marriage license…

And how would I know which name to engrave on your marital desert eagle? (yeah we’d be getting marital desert eagles)

Anonymous asked: You are my tumblr crush and I would like to marry you someday. You know... after we have met and exchanged names and stuff...

Well it’s a beautiful night and I’m looking for something dumb to do…

Names are unimportant, I shall refer to you as Dear and you could also refer to me as Dear. So Dear, we’ll both be Dears ;)

toucancum-deactivated20121030 asked: i enabled my submit page for you mannnnnnnnnnnnn

cool story bro